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If you are interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a “10″, then you should read this letter.

But before anything else, let’s go waaaay back…

Back in high school, I had a girl classmate that was so perfect.

She was smart, cool, and so beautiful it was hard to look at her (and yet I couldn’t look away)…

She was friendly to everyone and was one of the popular kids in school.

We talked occasionally, and looking back I realize we were flirting (I was too stupid to realize at the time).

I wanted to ask her to senior prom so badly…but I chickened out at the last minute.

A few years later I realized she had a crush on me all senior year.

I have talked to lot of men and this seems a common experience to them. they missed an opportunity to meet this ONE SPECIAL WOMAN who you crushed on from afar, or the girl had broke their heart…

Ah, the unreachable “10,” a perfect woman that every men dream but seems hard to attain.

I have a lot to say about so-called “10’s.” In one sense they are another “breed” of woman, but at the same time, it’s that kind of thinking that makes them so.

To help you resolve this conundrum, and maybe help you find that “perfect girl” for yourself, you need to understand you own fascination with female perfection, and understand the reality behind extremely beautiful women.

First thing, the idea about “10″ is just a myth. There’s no such thing as a perfect human being. You cannot tell that a girl is more “valuable” just because she looks beautiful than the other girl.

A woman that turns you on and have a great chemistry with you is the only true “10″ and is the one that’s perfect for you.

Following this reasoning, the world is full of 10’s, given you have the skills to meet a lot of women and create options for yourself.

Treating a woman differently than other women just because she is prettier is a recipe for failure.

Why?

Because every other guy does that.

A woman knows what you’re thinking and sees you as shallow.

But of course there are certain women that seem on another “level” of beauty than the other. And they are treated much differently than other women.

You need to understand this so that you will know how to treat these types of women.

As what I’ve said, you shouldn’t treat women “differently.”

Let me clarify.

You shouldn’t treat them BETTER than other women. But there are a couple things you need to know.

First, she is sick of guys chasing her for her looks alone.

She wants to be appreciated for her personality more than anything else.

Now for the benefits of yours, I’ll give you a heads up.

There are two types of “10’s.”

The high self-esteem, and the low self-esteem.

The common type is the low self-esteem 10’s. The women that belongs to this group are used to being wanted for their looks and they know that they didn’t EARN an attention, so they have a guilt complex.

In fact, most of their lives they’ve probably coasted, and are complete dumbasses.

May sound harsh but I call it like it is.

These women will respond to jerk behavior. They take away and flip out their validation will and do anything to get it back.

Anything.

(Aside from that, these women usually suck in bed and are total head cases when you get involved with them.)

Now high self-esteem 10’s are women that have had a taste of the elite -they realized early on that high levels of society were attainable to them, and they made an effort to be successful, intelligent, and make the most of their lives.

These women know that they are just a little closer to a great life than everyone else, and so they are motivated to put in the extra effort.

Usually these women have good attitudes, are intelligent, have a direction in life and have lots of interests beyond being clubbing.

In fact, the most beautiful women I’ve dated didn’t even go to the club. They like to spend their evenings reading, being with their families, or having a nice dinner with friends (or studying if they were in college).

One of the interesting thing about this types of women are that they are single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends. Why?

Because they have high standards for themselves, and since most guys are either too intimidated to ask them out, or act too needy and pathetic around them, it’s rare that they meet another man who is on their level.

But here’s the good news. These women are the easiest to attract when you understand The Attraction Code.

Being the best man you can be and being a “male 10″ is what you will get from these Attraction Code.

You will notice an interesting thing if you start to apply the Attraction Code.

There is an Auto-Rejection Mechanism that I call where some women will try to protect themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU first. This is where you’ll get odd responses from less attractive women - they will occasionally be rude to you because they know they’re not on your level.

But you’ll be amazed to see the responds of the most beautiful and attractive women that warm right up to you as soon as you approach them - whether on the street or in the bar - because they can see that you are on their “level.”

She thinks to herself, “finally, a guy who can hang with me; he’s confident and treats me like a real person. And he’s the only guy who’s actually tried to talk to me today, instead of whistling from his car.”

The Attraction Code is intended for these kinds of women. And you’ll also enjoy a lot of “adventures” with all kinds of women, but this is about having the option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.

There are bunch of 10’s out there waiting for you.

Don’t waste you’re time waiting for nothing.

Vin