Crossing the Barriers to Staying Sober.

by David Peters

Well at last you have decided to stop drinking. There is no chance at all that you can stop drinking, Yes! You have no chance to stop drinking, but do know it best, that you have a better chance to do it. Yes! You can make it. You can make something better against all the incredible frustrations and insults that alcohol had made you to face. Sell all those bottles and go straight to the One Dollar Shop and get a pair of Coffee mugs. They look pretty desirable than those alcohol tins.

Relapse; well you may be sensitized by the glamour of the bottle in the commercials, your friends partying around, and you may be tempted to go back again. It is a common happening. Many people fall back at least twice or thrice in relapse in their attempt to quit drinking. Be strong willed. Be clear that you are going to quit and don’t get back from that idea! Imagine if you go on like this your parents will very soon run short of funds for their medical insurance, your wife will have to work part-time or full-time to make ends meet; your children may have to leave their private school education.

Close your eyes, breath in a movement, set a goal, a prayer, a decision to stop drinking, tell it to your inner conscious self 5 times that you are going to stop drinking. Repeat this everyday before sleep and early in the morning. Your involuntary senses will listen to your need. You will see the result of this one-minute therapy instantly.

Stop drinking decision is a big boost to your health. You loose lot of calories. You get a healthy liver. Liver transplantation! Well you escape it. Kidney transplantation! Yes you stay miles away from it. Diabetes! Obviously yes, but a little diet too. Go on a regular exercise program. Who told you exercises should be only in the morning. Contact your doctor! Recent researches prove exercising at leisure is more beneficial than religious and half-hearted exercise. Compensate your drinking hours with exercises. A healthy and a sensible life style change.

Discuss with your friends on how to stop drinking. You can ask your wife to remind you if she sees that you are likely to relapse. Tell her to give you a warning. She will not deny it. You know she will happily do it for you.

Why don’t you get some guidance from your primary care provider. He is likely to guide you in the right track towards soberity. He can help you throw off your temptation. He may suggest you some medication that really helps.

Well, better go out on a dating as a means to avoid social events that encourage alcohol. Dating is better than boozing you see. Well it may be a little hard in the beginning. Day 1.jittery, Day 2Shivering to relapse. Day 3.better go to an eatery when you feel you want to drink more. See you have spent 1, 2, 3 days without drinking. Well! Get setgo you have started to stop drinking. Run, run, run away from this ugly addiction. Happy soberity!

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